Here’s the gist. If your desire doesn't lead you to GOD, purity and the essence of the truth, then you need to pull the plug and have a surgical session on the desire. Cut it open and fix this and that before using. All desires can be re-routed to do good.
It says, don't break down the pillar that supports society, don't pull down the fort that defends creation, don’t stop the vein of GOD from pumping HIS presence into our existence. Marriage is a vein of GOD, Adultery is a wound.